May 27th, 2010 12:16 PMBy ,
You are the luckiest graduating class because you are graduating from Duke University. And you are the brightest because you are the graduates from Duke University. [laughter] But remember all the millions of young people all around the world who are not as lucky as you are. They’re as bright as you are, most of them. They’re as creative as anyone anywhere. But they never had the opportunity to even go to school. #

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All of us here in this Yard, at one time or another, have seen human tragedies that broke our hearts, and yet we did nothing--not because we didn't care, but because we didn't know what to do. If we had known how to help, we would have acted. The barrier to change is not too little caring; it is too much complexity. To turn caring into action, we need to see a problem, see a solution, and see the impact. But complexity blocks all three steps. #

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I got my own sitcom, and that was very successful...And I thought, 'What if they find out I'm gay? Then they'll never watch,' and this was a long time ago, this was when we just had white presidents…And I thought, 'What's the worst that could happen? I can lose my career.' I did. I lost my career. The show was canceled after six years, without even telling me. I read it in the paper. The phone didn't ring for three years. I had no offers. Nobody wanted to touch me at all. Yet, I was getting letters from kids that almost committed suicide, but didn't, because of what I did. And I realized that I had a purpose. #

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When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: 'If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right.' It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something. #

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There is invisible writing on the back of the diploma you will receive, and in case you didn't bring lemon juice to decode it, I can tell you what it says: 'You are brilliant, and the earth is hiring.' The earth couldn't afford to send recruiters or limos to your school. It sent you rain, sunsets, ripe cherries, night blooming jasmine, and that unbelievably cute person you are dating. Take the hint. And here's the deal: Forget that this task of planet-saving is not possible in the time required. Don't be put off by people who know what is not possible. Do what needs to be done, and check to see if it was impossible only after you are done. #

Paul Hawken addresses the University of Portland's Class of 2009.

What do you think of these speeches? What remarkable ones did we leave out? Let us know below. #

4 Responses

  1. What a fantastic and timely post! The unique paths to and perspectives on success are helpful and inspirational.

    You should definitely add to your list the late DF Wallace's '05 Kenyon College commencement speech. I haven't seen video but here is the text: http://bit.ly/4ryFP6 .
    The speech underscores why Wallace is so admired by his fans: beyond the amazing dialogue, bizarre subject matter, verbal theatrics and obscene vocabulary, DFW was interested in being human, and in particular the challenges contemporary life presents to being a good person. In that respect thsi speech belongs on your excellent list.

    Keep up the great work.

    • Ivan -

      DFW's speech was included in the first draft of this post, so fear not, it's on our Top 10 list! Here's what I wrote about it:

      The late, great author-philosopher David Foster Wallace cut through the rosy veneer of the prototypical graduation speech to deliver hard truths about real life as only he could. Yet as with much of his work, he captured the beauty of life as well as its blemishes by doing what he encouraged Kenyon’s Class of 2005 to do: be aware.

      Highlights:
      • Get out of your head and question your assumptions: “[I’ve learned] to have just a little critical awareness about myself and my certainties. Because a huge percentage of the stuff that I tend to be automatically certain of is … totally wrong and deluded.”
      • Freedom takes work: “The really important kind of freedom involves attention and awareness and discipline.”
      • You have agency; use it well: “You get to consciously decide what has meaning and what doesn't. You get to decide what to worship.”

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